Versus Desire before we get into the specifics of how to supercharge your success with women by understanding how women think, what they react to, and what conscious decisions you can make as an individual to elicit the reactions you want out of women, it’s important to first understand the fundamental differences between attraction and desire. You see, men have a problem – they think that success with women is based on attraction. It’s not. Many of us men think that women think this way because we are projecting our own biological mechanisms onto them. We are highly visual. Every time we see a beautiful woman, we see an opening. Learn more at https://blogs.botw.org/Health/Reproductive_Health/ and http://www.stpt.com/directory/health/diseases_and_conditions/
The area of our brain associated with handling tools literally lights up when presented pictures of bikini clad women. Our evolution has made us sight-oriented. We are first sexually attracted by the mere image of a woman. The better she looks, the healthier our brain tells us she is, and the healthier she is, the better offsprings she will produce. It’s not very romantic, but in order for you to truly be successful with women, we have to ditch all the romantic bullshit and the social ideological nonsense about “the one” and instead get down to the nitty gritty realities of how we are hard-wired. Although we will go into more detail about this in ensuing chapters, the raw reality of life is that every decision you make is based off of a series of subconscious biological imperatives and value judgments. You are a product of chemical reactions and millions of years of evolution, and there is nothing you can do about that (unless you want to sit in meditation on a mountain top for the next 30 years then I’m sure you may gain some kind of negligible control over your base instincts).