A vast majority of men’s dating advice books and columns recommend complimenting a womans pheromones.
It vacillates between something unique about her, something physical, or only something about her intellect, but the theory is omnipresent. Compliment her and she will warm to you immediately with cheaper pheromones.
Some of this might feel fake and extraneous, and that you don’t need to tell her how you feel for her to know that you appreciate her.
But think about all the reasons that women want that engagement ring (or other symbol of commitment and love). Sometimes women need a little bit more than “just knowing” that someone cares for you. Say it loud, and say it proud. It bonds you two together for greater pheromone production. Learn more at http://anselandthegreattree.com/2016/10/03/confirmation-for-more-pheromones/ and http://www.nowlandstone.com/uncategorized/guy-gives-her-pheromone-attention/
Even better is if you can compliment her on things that she is insecure or unsure about. If you can do that, it’s an amazing bonus because you can help boost her self-esteem about those things and eventually she will be more comfortable and confident in them!
Make her feel appreciated and she will do the same for you, guaranteed.
Oftentimes, we convey emotions that we don’t intend to… or we give ourselves away far too easily. In either case, it’s a matter of aligning your physical appearance with your internal emotional state to make sure that you are not conveying mixed messages, or even worse, feeding misunderstandings of all those pheromones.
It’s imperative that you learn how to pass the mirror test.
What is the mirror test? It’s a matter of feeling an emotion, and noticing how you convey it physically through your facial expressions and body language. Do they match up? Do you even show any emotion? Or are there mixed messages all over the place?
A quick example is smiling and laughing when someone is nervous or angry.
So how does your woman perceive your smiling, frowning, arms crossing, and angry glare?
This is extremely important for you to figure out and curate, because any time there is a misalignment of the external and internal representations of an emotion, you can be sure that there will be a misunderstanding with your woman. Accurately representing how you feel inside is key because it keeps things straightforward, keeps you honest, and avoids any sort of reading between the lines by your woman. And as we know, women sometimes read far too much between the lines and can come to conclusions that are in the exact wrong direction.
Smile when you’re happy, frown when you’re not. Sounds simple, doesn’t it? Chances are that you give or receive criticism on a daily basis. Your work may sometimes demand it, or it can be an integral part of your personality. It’s not ideal, but it’s certainly a realistic realization. However, in the context of a relationship, criticism should be used judiciously, carefully, and gently.
Criticism in your daily life can have many purposes. At work, you can be helping someone with their performance. On public transportation, you can be showing your displeasure for someone’s odor. Heck, to your friends, it can be an underlying remnant of other resentment
Unfortunately, our subconscious takes over much of the time to withdraw and protect ourselves. If you think your body language during an intense conversation or argument is open-minded and accepting, think again. Were you actually folding your arms, standing menacingly, and raising your voice?