Contact With Pheromones
So ALWAYS allow it to happen! Don't force it, don't encourage it... be every bit the best man you can be but for yourself, not for her true pheromones.
When you can get to a point where you're running under your own steam, fully accountable, emotionally resilient (i.e. always ok no matter what, through death, disease and otherwise)... and completely unapologetic... women will gravitate fully towards you, because you'll be the kind of man they've been looking for their whole lives with natural pheromones. Learn more at http://www.rradventures.info/women-over-age-33-who-enjoy-pheromones.html/ and http://www.wealsnet.com/do-your-pheromones-work/
Do NOT protect yourself or hide yourself away from emotional pain... just make sure you develop that emotional resilience so you're ok no matter what. You cannot buy that kind of freedom man.
When a woman finds a man like that... she will fight to the fucking death for him. You become a man like that and a woman will fight to the death for you. And you'll see what loyalty really means then. I don't know her, but I don't have any evidence to say she's a shitty person. She sounds pretty cool to be honest. She totally might be a cunt. I just don't get that impression from what I've read here so far using cheap pheromones.
Don't worry too much about the vocabulary o…f pheromones the only reason I bring it up is because you seem like a very decent, very kind and good man who still has his mental health. You get too far into it and you start talking like them, like you're in a little club or cult and... well it just gets weird after that. You, from my perspective, would be best served by a few small changes in perspective / frame... and you'll be fucking set. No need to go down the rabbit hole!!
Cutting off contact was probably the right thing to do though and it's good you have the kind of emotional strength. Haha... yeah - just about every woman I've ever been involved with who I've moved on from, has text me a few weeks or a couple months, or even a year after the split.
You know what that says about you using real pheromones?
It says you're a good fucking man and that she loved you. She enjoyed being with you. That message was maybe her wanting to alleviate guilt... or maybe it was because she missed you... hoping to find things had maybe changed in a way the relationship could still be continued. That's the more likely scenario in my opinion, considering the pet name.
Maybe at that point your goals would have become more aligned... maybe there could be a middle ground developed... she wouldn't know if she didn't check in. But the fact she contacted you says she still thought about you and that she probably missed you.
You should value that and feel good about it. Fuck that, age is irrelevant. Girls find older dudes with hot bodies sexy incredibly sexy. Play on the daddy/daughter thing and they'll be powerless to resist you
My 27 year old sister just started dating a 48 year old fella and she has no shortage of male interest.