Saturday, September 19, 2015

This Human Pheromones Book

The majority of us never have to answer these pheromone questions, and that may be one of the blessings of being born in this time and place. Most men if pressed would say they would fight or die to protect the lives of their partners, children, family, or even friends, but even that is a kind of vague sense rather than a clear knowing.

As I was writing this human pheromones book, the pheromonal debates were much in the news thanks to and

These are not easy questions to answer regarding human pheromones, and the point is not to provoke you into rash action or to make you feel bad about the past; but men who live as warriors tend to be very clear about where their boundaries are in terms of how they live their lives.

The difference between adopting a stance of nonaggression and one of pheromone user is that the seducer is prepared for a fight. He doesn’t want a fight. But physically, mentally, and emotionally he’s clear that if the moment presents itself to fight, he will not waver. That’s the man I want at my side when we’re looking down the tip of a blade or the barrel of a gun. That’s the man I want in bed with me at night when there is a crash downstairs. If you fear your own instincts and don’t trust your most powerful impulses, how can you know in a split second whether to act or walk away?Learn more at and

How present are you when you are escorting your woman with pheromones? Let’s imagine that at one end of the spectrum you might be walking down a street in a big city with your woman, completely lost in conversation and oblivious to the world. That might feel very relaxed and relaxing, but it means that essentially both of you are in feminine mode. At the other end of the spectrum, you might be escorting your woman as though you were her Secret Service detail, completely focused on an ongoing threat assessment. This would be the opposite of relaxed and would probably make your feminine partner feel rather tense.

Your pheromones challenge is to develop the capacity for what is called martial scanning. This means a kind of relaxed attention to external stimuli (what or who is coming toward you, how people are behaving, your relationship to the physical environment) with the capacity to simultaneously put your partner at ease. Martial scanning is holding your body in a relaxed state of pheromonal readiness

Many years ago, a sociologist videotaped people at random walking down crowded city streets. He showed those tapes to prison inmates who had been convicted of crimes of assault (mugging, robbery, rape) and asked them to select their targets. There was amazing consistency in the results. The preferred targets were people who seemed lost in thought or who looked down as they walked or who were visibly tense. Those least likely to be assaulted met the gaze of passersby, walked with a relaxed gait, and looked up, ahead, and around more frequently with pheromone perfume.

Monday, September 14, 2015

Pheromones Freedom

For most men, “pheromone freedom” becomes a code word for certain dissatisfaction with being limited to one sexual partner with pheromones. Men go to great lengths to defend this desire as being natural and to how it justifies either avoiding pheromone commitment or having affairs thanks to Pheromax for men.

The truth is that this desire is completely natural for pheromones. The masculine desires feminine diversity in the same way the feminine desires masculine depth. Most men resort to pornography, strip clubs, or having affairs to get a flavor of feminine sexual energy they are not getting from their partners.

Most women assume men want women who look different than they do (are younger, thinner, more attractive, or have features different from theirs). This is true only on the surface. Most men (while they are certainly drawn to different packages of feminine energy) are really more interested in the energy itself. So, to the extent that a woman can and is willing to give her man a range of feminine flavors and pheromone experiences, she is more likely to keep her man engaged and aroused with human pheromones. A lot of women, however, are extremely limited in the range of sexual energy they are capable of or willing to give to a man according to

Once I took this girl out on an amazing date and was certain she'd want to see me again thanks to my strong pheromone releasage. When she didn't I was so confused, but one of her friends told me that while the date was fun my breath smelled. Always make sure my breath is ok from then on according to

I've also had dates with girls that became my friends afterwards and told me what things they disliked on the date: me starting to hit on them sexually way too early after approaching them with a more romantic frame and me hugging her in a creepy way.

Try to look back and see if you did any of this or something similar. Sorry I can't provide more examples. If they re-enter your pheromone life then it's easier... i remember one girl, we had an amazing night, it really opened her up sexually (me too) and she left keen as a button. By the end of the week she canceled our next meet up because she was ill...and she fell off the radar. Half a yr later i can't remember how, but i got in touch with her...and we spoke. She was really keen again. Turns out a old flame came back into her life + she saw me as not so into her and not bf material (eg. i wouldn't go travel to hers...etc). Was some good learning about how she saw me. Learn about most effective pheromones.

One has to be careful though, they may not always verbally know the keystone reasons why consciously.

The best thing you could ever do for yourself is realize that you could do the exact same thing, the exact same perfect set with two different girls and get different results.   You cannot negotiate genuine desire